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Jealousy: The Emotion We Dont Like to Talk About (But Should)

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Waterfall Contemplation's #2 I'm not usually a jealous person. I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve truly felt jealousy in my life. But this past year… something shifted. Something happened in my life that turned it upside down. It’s been trying. Exciting. Scary. Fulfilling. Uplifting. Emotionally exhausting, even. And jealousy has reared its ugly head more times than I care to admit. I’ve found myself reacting in ways I never expected. Feeling insecure in moments that used to feel solid. Questioning myself, my worth, and even the love I know exists in my life. I don’t want to be a jealous person. I don’t want to feel out of control. And yet, there were moments I did . Moments I felt irrational, overwhelmed, even crazy—and none of it felt good. So, I started digging. I wanted to understand jealousy, not just shove it down. I wanted to learn where it comes from and how to take back my peace. I figured I’d turn what I’ve learned into a blog post—just in case it mig...

Are we our Avatars?

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  Waterfall contemplations @ Vox Populi       In Second Life , Ive created an avatar that just feels  right—like slipping into a version of myself that had been waiting for me all along. Over time, it stopped feeling like a character and started feeling like me . Every little detail—the shape of the nose, the way the body moves, even the way the clothes fit—became part of my identity. I’ve seen others switch things up all the time, reinvent themselves with each new update or trend. But I’ve never felt the need. This avatar holds memories, relationships, and moments that shaped who I am here. Changing it would feel like walking away from part of myself. I don’t care if it's not the newest mesh body or the most fashionable look. It’s not just an avatar—it’s me . And every time I log in, there’s comfort in that familiarity. It reminds me where I’ve been, and who I’ve become.   I’ve become deeply connected to my avatar because, in many ways, it’s a digital exte...

The Geneva Edit – Personal, Curated, Elevated #18

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The Geneva Edit: Lingerie Edition Let’s slip into something a little more comfy! Lingerie in Second Life is more than just lace. It’s a mood. A power move. A moment between the layers where you dress for the gaze, the tease. Whether you're showing off or savoring a secret under your satin slip dress, the right lingerie says everything without saying a word. It’s the closest thing to magic: silk that tightens your posture, lace that boosts your mood, straps that remind you you’re made of velvet and steel. Lingerie doesn’t ask permission to be powerful—it already is. It can be romantic, raw, delicate, dominant. It’s armor disguised as intimacy. And when it fits just right, it doesn’t just hug your body, it hugs your soul.